I can easily say that motherhood has been the hardest challenge i’ve faced, yet the most rewarding one. I shot these images a while back when I first brought Chloe home, and wanted to share them with you before it was too late. It’s funny looking back at these pictures, that were only taken a few weeks ago, because Chloe is SOOOOOO much bigger now. She weighs around 13 lbs and has grown SO tall! I want to document every moment with her because she seems to be growing at such a rapid rate, and before I know it she’ll be all grown up!
The first month was the most difficult, and I wasn’t sure how I was going to survive. We’ve finally figured out a system, and also a schedule that works for Chloe, and it’s been a game changer. She has been sleeping 4-5 hours straight thru out the night, and I couldn’t be any happier (the first night this happened I literally had tears of joy!). I talk about my first month with Chloe in my latest video below, and hope you enjoy all the untold stories that I share….
Photography by Karen Rosalie
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Congratulations on taking on the most important job of your life! I had my first baby just 9 months ago so I can relate to a lot. I live in Canada so we are fortunate enough to receive one full year if paid maternity leave. I am enjoying every day I get to be at home with Nolan.
If I could share anything with you, I’d say to thimgs slow down and spend as much time as possible with Chloe. Time is precious and it will pass by in the blink of an eye. I know at times you may feel like you have to delve right back into work especially because the fashion industry moves so fast, but it will always be there. You won’t be missing out on anything by not attending an event or fashion week, or anything else for that matter.
Part of motherhood I have treasured is getting to know my baby boy more and more. Figuring each other out, observing my baby’s body language, getting to know his moods, his personality and knowing how to respond to his needs. That all comes from just being present at those moments in time.
I am a control freak and a perfectionist but I learned I have to relax and also designate note things to my husband, family, and friends. I acceped help. I learned to say no. You can still do it all in life, but life is much more enjoyable if you do it with the help of those you love and love you.
I share your pain of loss from miscarriage. I suffered two. My husband and I also struggled with unexplained infertility for 8 years. During those painful years, I was also diagnosed with breast cancer at 36. There were times I thought God had forgotten about me but of course that couldn’t be further from the truth.
Just continue to be grateful as you always seem to do.
God bless you, your husband of of course precious little Chloe!
Sincerely,
Diana Shin
Loved the video, Chriselle! You’re my favorite blogger because you’re so genuine and candid with everything you do, yet you’re ambitious and inspiring! Congrats on your new family. Chloe is going to grow a beautiful girl!
This was so genuine. The poop story Chloe is going to love to hear about that. Wish you nothing but the best. Love every second of you and Chloe time
Chloe is so precious! Motherhood looks beautiful on you Chriselle!
Love,
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Fun, short pieces of advice xo from 50 moms: http://www.momtricks.com/pregnancy/50-mom-bloggers-share-their-advice-for-first-time-moms/
wish you could post more video’s 😀
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Love these photos! You look amazing and she is so cute!
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Beautiful photos and she is so adorable!
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Great and so lovely! Im sure you are a great mother!
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This was so honest, thank you! I now have a feeling like I’m one stop closer to knowing what to expect 🙂 As others pointed out, motherhood really makes you shine! I wish you that this journey will be a smooth sailing from now on. Have a beautiful day!
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Those first days are still crystal clear in my mind. The days when I was lost in taking care of my newborn babies. I didn’t even know if it’s day or night. Everything was so overwhelming. My kids are 14, 11, and 6 now and I still wish to go back to those days and enjoy every second of it even more. I miss those days. Thank you for sharing Chriselle! I love how graceful and transparent you are. Keep inspiring!
I’ve recently started following your blog and instagram page that I found through Song of Styles instagram page. As a recent new ftm as well, I want to thank you for being so candid in your video. Everything you said, couldn’t have been described better. I went through a similar experience and actually feel like I’m still treading water as a new mom. I expeienced anxiety during the first few months and felt extremely vulnerable and raw. Thank you for sharing part of your journey with your readers and for keeping it real 😉
She is cute:-)
I remember when I had my son 7 years ago. It’s really the hardest job in the world.. And the most awesome job. Enjoy every moment. lol
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Congrats. What a beautiful baby. Motherhood is amazing. FYI my favorite pjs at this age are http://www.kickeepants.com. They are amazing and you’ll thank me later.
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She’s so cute, I love the video too. <3
The Quirky Queer
Thank you for the beautiful photos along with the stories you share!!!
I’d love to know what system/schedule you are using. I have a little one too and it’s such a hit and miss with her sleeping although we try to maintain consistency. Would love to hear what you do!
God bless you and your beautiful family, Chriselle!
Lovely post Chriselle! Congrats!
xo
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Beautiful! Motherhood looks great on you Chriselle.
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What a beautiful post. Thank you for sharing. And Chloe is so beautiful.
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Miri
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They really grow up too fast. my Little Bean just started walking on her own, and i can already see her running away from me…
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What a beautiful post. Having a baby is the most precious jewel any parent earns.
XOXO JuJu
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OMG she has so much hair! Congrats on entering the next episode of your life!
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You are such a beautiful mommy Chriselle – glowing from the inside out! Thank you for sharing these precious moments with us! xx
So sweet!
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Those are such precious pictures! Love them!
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Motherhood is a great experience, your baby girl is so lovely
This is wonderful! xo
such a great video — I think you’re doing an amazing job at keeping baby and work balanced. All your recent posts have been great. You definitely are going to be a wonderful mother and have a happy little girl and a successful blog for a while!
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It’s so nice to hear how candid and honest you are about your journey. I haven’t had a child yet but my special someone and I have been talking about it a lot. I feel like a lot of people talk about all the wonderful things a baby brings and then just gloss over the trials or the everyday emotions you go through when trying to balance a family with the rest of your life. It’s good to hear you’re taking a bit of “me” time out and I think finding a balance is just about your instinct. I think most people can see when they’re spending too much time on one aspect of themselves and neglecting the other. Good luck!
-M
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Wow, these photos are just priceless – she’s beautiful ❤
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So adorable<3
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Beautiful photos, you look great. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
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You are such a beautiful mom & chloe is so lucky have mom like you. <3
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Such a touching and heartwarming post! Being a mom, for me is the biggest blessing and responsibility I ever got in my life and
I love very moment of it. Enjoy your little girl Chriselle, she’ll teach you so much! 🙂
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You looks so fab.
And your baby is so adorable
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She is so precious Chriselle! And you look amazing!
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adorable & stunning pictures! amazing !
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